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REFLECTIONS FROM THE HEART AND MIND

13/8/08

SECOND HAND LOVE


can we have a love relationship with a dignify love behaviour? that means trust him/her like if you were 70 years old but with an active and good sex life. (trust 100%.)
is our love full of conditions? do we really want our partner to be happy? we all share a kind of love which is not entirely love, it's a mix of our fears, our doubts, our insecurities, and above all ; our egoism, selfishness.
the man or woman who has developed this kind of love, can not believe that his/her love is dignify.
not even dignifyed enough to call it "love", it's a "second hand love" it's actually low love.
we do love, of course. but don't fool yourselves thinking that it's pure and desinterested.
to reach that kind of behaviour you will have to learn to trust 100% your partner and yourself, realize that you are allways putting your interests first before the other's happyness.
the worst thing is that we all know that, but we are just not good enough "loving" to admit it.
it's simple to predict the ending here....
Disappointment you'll get when you give a "second hand love" and it will probably get worst eventually.
don't fool yourself anymore !!!!!!

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