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REFLECTIONS FROM THE HEART AND MIND

3/2/09

before and after


we, humans, have many things in common, but the most important is the change.
those who claim not to change, those who stick to their old patterns every day, those who don't embrace the change as something natural are not simply wrong, but probably unstable, sad, stressed or sick.
stop for a second and think about this;
how many "before and after" moments do you have in your life?
not just those events that marked you, like death or sickness, that's more than ovbious, i'm talking about those moments you attempted to make them happend even if they worked out or not.
I am not talking about if what we attempted to do was successful or not.
because things that end up the wrong way, will lead us to somewhere else, different than the other choice we had, and that will lead us to another place even more different, and so on ... until you realize that if it had not been for that first decition you took, you might not be where you are now.
the logic here is devastating: please think about it, if you follow the same path every day, same time, same pace, less chances you have to encounter something new, something that could be this " before and after" moment we all are looking for.
the more "before and after" moments you have in your memory bank, the better your inner life will be.
you will look back and feel that you really lived your life fully and aware that there's no regret because this is the human nature, which is the nature of the universe: change itself.
embrace that, and you will be embracing truth. your truth.

30/9/08

THE SOLUTION FOR A BETTER WOLRD






Smart people says that "they" have more responsability in order to rule the world, in order to teach others how to proceed under certain circumstances to make a better world.
the smartest people are centainly more capable of anything considering their potential to manage multiple variables at the same time. More IQ= more capacity, thats for sure.
why is not that people involved in gobernments? why are they working in multinational companys? or private companys? just for their own benefits.
we all do our part, give our best to society not killing, not robbing, not doing nothing wrong. that's bullshit and you all know it.
individualism is the premise for every family in the world now. we don't care about others, not even the smartest people in the world care, but that's our fault. they have tryed and we just keep ignoring them one time after another.
Imagine a single individual who can speak 250 lenguages, or more, processes the same information than a computer or more. what could he or she achive as a political-economical-social consultant for a government ?. A person who can predict facts before they occure just studying the history, or prevent an asteroid colition on earth from the space, some one who is capable of conceive the theory of worm holes before this theory even existed in our "advanced" cience fields.
people like William James Sidis the one in the picture above. This man was the smartes human being in history, and he's not even in our textbooks in school. he died in 1944 and was capable of this things i have written and much much more.
Highest IQ worth nothing for us if they are not required to be in charge, they are seen as if they were an abortion of nature, we don't give them the chance to prove themselves worthy of their responsability to make a better world because we are afraid of being shadowed by them, afraid of loosing control. instead of trusting the obvious we choose to stick with the old and stupid values we have been useing for too long.
nature is telling us to pay attention to this people, and we just keep ignoring the obvious call.
untill we put this people in charge we're going to remain going backwards in this so called evolution we think we are developing in the name of the cience among other things.

23/9/08

FREEDOM OR NOT ?



"I do not believe the State has the right to tell me what to put in my head. We have a law for free speech, free assembly, and so on. I think the same thing applies regarding what I put into my body. I don't think the state has any more right to tell me what to put in my mouth than it has to tell me what can come out of my mouth. Those two are essentially the same thing—and they both are essential elements of freedom."
U.S.A. INDIRECT EFFECTS BECAUSE OF THE DROGS PROHIBITION "One of the worst features of our prohibition is its international effects. Here we are responsible in the United States for the deaths of hundreds or thousands of people in Latin America—in Colombia and Peru and so on. Why are they dying? They are dying because we cannot enforce our own laws...we are fundamentally a murderer of people in countries like Peru."
Nobel Prize MILTON FRIEDMAN.
there is an undeniable reality, powerful goberments operate from bad premises, "laws against drougs" causing damage to poor countries. marihuana prohibition laws for example, not mentioning another hard drogs like cocaine and so on. this laws against drugs are wrong. believe it or not it is as simple as that.

30/8/08

WHAT A WAY

VALUES.
DO YOU REALLY APPLY THEM, STICK TO THEM EVERY DAY?
HAVING THEM INSIDE IS GOOD. BUT NOT THOUSE ONES THAT CAME FROM THE FORMAL EDUCATION OR AT HOME, I MEAN THEY HAVE TO BE RATIONALIZED, METICULOUSLY ANALIZED BY OUR CONSCIENCE AND THEN TAKEN TO THE FIELD, THIS LAST ONES ARE THE BEST YOU MIGHT HAVE.
WHEN THE TIME COMES TO USE THEM, DO WE JUST "SLIDE THEM UNDER THE CARPET" AND HIDE THEM FROM US SO WE DON'T HAVE TO FEEL ASHAMED OF OURSELVES?.
I TRULY WANT TO BELIVE IN PEOPLE THAT THERE IS A BALANCE BETWEEN GOOD AND EVIL.
YOU CAN HAVE VALUES, BUT IF YOU DON'T PRACTICE PREMEDITATED GOOD ACTIONS AND AVOID THIS KIND OF THINGS, YOU ARE NOT CONTRIBUTING YOUR "GRAIN OF SAND" TO MAKE A BETTER WORLD. NOT EVEN CLOSE.
LOOKFOR THE OPORTUNITY.
SECOND CHANCES ARE ACCEPTABLE. WE ALL NEED THEM. WE ALL KNOW IT IS SIMPLY NECESARY FOR ALL OF US TO HAVE THEM IN OUR LIVES, GRANT YOURSEF AND OTHERS SECOND CHANCES, IT IS ONE OF THE MOST PRESTIGIOUS VALUES THERE ARE.
REMEMBER, "YOU'LL GET WHAT YOU GIVE".
THAT'S A FACT THAT WILL MAKE OTHERS THINK, WHAT A WAY !!!!! I WANT TO DO IT THAT WAY TOO...!!!!!

29/8/08

NO EXCUSES




THERE IS ALWAYS A YIN FOR A YANG, RIGHT?, AS THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE WHO IS DEFENDING OR EXCUSING SOME OTHERS FOR NOT BEING ABLE TO MAKE ANY PROGRESS IN THEIR LIVES, THOSE WHO REFUSE TO BE HAPPY AND DON'T KNOW IT'S ENTIRELY UP TO THEM.
HERS' THE THING. REMEMBER THE BALANCE WHO KEEPS US OCCUPIED, THE BALANCE THAT LETS THE EARTH ROLL ON ITS AXE AT 1500 KM/hr.
JUST LIKE THAT BALANCE, WE HAVE ONE HERE. ITS MORE THAN OBVIOUS.
TELL ME THAT WE HAVE FEET TO STAY AT HOME ALL DAY LONG LAYING ON THE COUCH INSTEAD OF WALK OUT THE DOOR AND FACE OUR REALITY, OUR PROBLEMS.
THE TREES HAVE ROOTS, RIGHT?, THEY CAN'T FACE THEIR REALITY ANY OTHER WAY BUT STANDING STILL RIGHT WHERE THEY GREW UP.
THE ONES THAT NEED TO BE EXCUSED FOR EVERYTHING BECAUSE "LIFE IS NOT FARE TO THEM" OR SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY CHOOSE THE EASY WAY OUT FOR EVERY AND EACH PROBLEM THAT POPS UP.
LET ME TELL YOU THAT THERE IS NO POSIBLE EXCUSE FOR ME. I AM TIRE OF PEOPLE THAT EXCUSES THEMSEVES BECAUSE THEY CHOOSE THE EASY WAY, THE SIMPLE WAY, AND JUST KEEP FAILING ONE TIME BEHIND ANOTHER.

" IT'S NOT MY FAULT"..... THEY SAY...... GIVE ME A BREAK!!!!!.

OK. I'LL GIVE THOUSE ONES ONE MORE CHANCE BECAUSE THEY DIDN'T REALIZED THAT THE WORLD WAS SPINNING AROUND WITHOUT STOPPING, THAT THE GRAVITY IS HOLDING US TOGETHER IN THIS WORLD, THEY DIDN'T KNOW THAT THEY WERE NOT SUPOSED TO LIVE LIKE TREES.
SURE, IT'S NOT EASY TO ASOCIATE THE VELOCITY, THE CONSTANT MOVEMENT IN THE UNIVERSE, WITH THE FACT THAT IF WE EXCUSED OURSELVES FROM THAT REALITY, WE ARE JUST BREAKING THE VERY ESSENSE OF EXISTANCE. CHANGE, FOR GOD'S SAKE. CONSTANT CHANGE. EVERY SECOND EVERY MOVE.
BUT IF WE DON'T FOLLOW THIS OBVIOUS PATTERN IN OUR LIFES.... IT IS MORE THAN LIKELY THAT DEPRESSION AND UNHAPPINESS WILL TRAPED US EVENTUALLY.
FIND THE CHANGE YOU NEED !!!!!! IT WILL SET YOU FREE

13/8/08

SECOND HAND LOVE


can we have a love relationship with a dignify love behaviour? that means trust him/her like if you were 70 years old but with an active and good sex life. (trust 100%.)
is our love full of conditions? do we really want our partner to be happy? we all share a kind of love which is not entirely love, it's a mix of our fears, our doubts, our insecurities, and above all ; our egoism, selfishness.
the man or woman who has developed this kind of love, can not believe that his/her love is dignify.
not even dignifyed enough to call it "love", it's a "second hand love" it's actually low love.
we do love, of course. but don't fool yourselves thinking that it's pure and desinterested.
to reach that kind of behaviour you will have to learn to trust 100% your partner and yourself, realize that you are allways putting your interests first before the other's happyness.
the worst thing is that we all know that, but we are just not good enough "loving" to admit it.
it's simple to predict the ending here....
Disappointment you'll get when you give a "second hand love" and it will probably get worst eventually.
don't fool yourself anymore !!!!!!

NOW I UNDERSTAND


ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.

I GOT IT NOW, THE MULTINATIONAL COMPANYS AND THE MONOPOLY IN THIS SOCIETY ARE GETTING FAT WITH THE 2008 WORLD CRISIS.
2 BANKS HAVE BEEN CLOSED DOWN IN U.K. . THEY HAVE DECLARED THEMSEVES BROKE.
BANCARROTA !! YES BANKRUPCY. AND YOU KNOW HOW LONG WILL IT TAKE THE BANKS HERE IN SPAIN TO FOLLOW THAT INEVITABLE HAPPENING ?
WELL I KNOW, NEXT YEAR WE WILL DOUBLE THAT NUMBER OR MORE.
BUT FOR NOW LET'S JUST STICK WITH THIS SMALL THINGS, FOR INSTANCE, THE HOTEL ( "PLAZA CABANA" IN NERJA, MALAGA, SPAIN,)MANAGER AND OWNER HAD BEEN ROBBING THEIR EMPLOYEES FOR AGES, MAKING THEM WORK 6 DAYS WITH A CONTRACT OF 5 DAYS A WEEK. FORCING THEM TO DO EXTRA-HOURS BECAUSE THERE'S JUST NOT ENOUGH PERSONAL TO DO A PROPER JOB.
BUT THAT'S JUST NOTHING COMPARED WITH THE FACT THAT THE OWNER HIMSELF FACE EACH AND EVERY EMPLOYEE IN THE ENTIRE HOTEL AND THREATEN THEM OF BEING FIRED IF THEY VOTE FOR THE "UGT" CANDIDATE WHO IS NOT THE ONE THEY HAVE CHOSEN. OF COUSE IS SOMEONE WHO WON'T SAY ANYTHING ABOUT THE REALITY OF THE WORK CONDITIONS THERE.

"U.G.T" IS THE THE UNION. AND THEY ARE VOTING FOR A DELEGATE WHO REPRECENTS THEM IN THE TRADE UNION MEETINGS.
THIS IS A USUAL THING IN SMALL TOWNS, IN 2008 SOUTHER SPAIN.
YOU MIGHT NOT BE SURPRISED IF YOU ARE IN URUGUAY WITH THIS KIND OF THINGS BUT HERE, EUROPE 2008, GIVE ME A BREAK !!!
I'D BET YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW WHERE URUGUAY IS !!! AND THIS IS ONLY THE BEGINNING SPAIN IS GOING DEEP DOWN.